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I asked several of our Fit
Gals and Guys to tell me what challenged them for 2012 and what they were
hoping to change for the New Year. They
responded and I give my input and tips, sharing what’s worked for me and
hopefully what can work for you! I won’t
sugar coat anything, just tell you what you want to hear, or be gentle. I’m a tell-it-like-it-is kind of gal and only
want the best (and to be honest) for your journey!
Question and Struggle:
Gal says, “I struggle with
snacking on too many BLT’s (bites, licks, and tastes) from my kids’ plates.”
Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan:
Focus on your daily
diet. If you’re still really hungry
after you’ve eaten or while prepping the kids’ food, then you might not be
eating enough. Time to eat….the right
foods! Much like when you prep to go grocery
shopping, you eat before you go so the wrong and tempting foods don’t make
their way into the cart. The same goes
for when you’re around others’ tempting foods.
If you find yourself in the habit of snacking often, then make sure your
plan is balanced and you’re giving yourself enough cheat meals and treats to
stay content. Otherwise, bad habits
arise and before you know it, you’ve ventured way off plan and a simple slip
has turned into a slide!
I also say, if you find
yourself craving something SO bad, then have it. Not the whole tub of ice cream or the entire
box of cookies, but rather a scoop or a cookie or a
small bowl of the kids’ whatevers…..then you may not feel so deprived and you
can move on with your clean-eating plan.
Just remember, no matter what it is, if you snack, you track it. Stay honest with you to stay the course!
Question and Stuggle:
Gal says, “How do I find motivation
after an injury? I make the decision to
get in shape, I come out of the gate strong, work out way too hard, giving 110%
each time and then I get injured and my plan falls apart. How do I pull back the reins and stay
motivated?”
Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan:
I see two different areas
to tackle here. If you see this as your ongoing
pattern, then you have to go back and identify the problem and set yourself up
for success.
-First issue: giving 110%
at each workout is awesome and a wonderful plan. But if your plan is to lift and do cardio too
often, then you’ll find injury waiting around the corner. You’re not getting injured because you’re
giving 110%, you’re getting injured because you may not be listening to your
body and giving it what it needs.
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-Second issue: Staying
motivated! It sounds like this scenario
is maybe one expecting fast results.
Time to change the mindset. Fast
results do not really exist, without injury, frustration, and lack of
motivation. Most people quit way too
soon because they aren’t getting where they want to be quickly. What needs to happen is for people to realize
that slow progress IS progress. So just
keep going! Work your plan, listen to
your body, and expect the best, not what’s happened in the past!
Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I want to change
it up and lift heavier.”
Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan
Ok. So go for it!
It’s all about baby steps, though.
It’s you against you in this race and doesn’t matter what the gal or guy
next to you is lifting. The best way to
lift heavier is to have a plan and keep record of what you lifted last
time. Get a journal and write it all
down. Make note of how it felt, focus on
your form, and always try to improve and go up in weight the next time you
tackle that exercise.
If you're lifting heavy and your goal is to grow muscle, you'll do higher weights and lower reps. I usually do 3 to 4 sets of a 10-12 rep exercise and if it's a REALLY heavy weight (like on leg day) my sets may only have 6 reps. If you're making a change, it's best to consult someone at your gym for a coaching session or consider a trainer for a time and learn proper form and strategy. That's what I did and it was one of the best investments (in me) I've ever done!
If you're lifting heavy and your goal is to grow muscle, you'll do higher weights and lower reps. I usually do 3 to 4 sets of a 10-12 rep exercise and if it's a REALLY heavy weight (like on leg day) my sets may only have 6 reps. If you're making a change, it's best to consult someone at your gym for a coaching session or consider a trainer for a time and learn proper form and strategy. That's what I did and it was one of the best investments (in me) I've ever done!
The formula for growing the
muscle is making sure you have proper rest between sets and enough hydration
during your lifting AND making sure that muscle group is well rested before
working it out again on another day.
Also, pay attention to your pre and post workout nutrition making sure
to have complex carbs and protein before lifting and a quick carb and protein
post lifting. Steer clear of all fats
and high fiber foods for 90 minutes after lifting so the quick carbs and proteins are absorbed
first to replenish the muscle. In due time, and with proper timing and nutrition, you'll see the ability to lift heavy(er) and go for the look you desire. Keep a
plan, keep record, set your goals and go for it!
Question and Struggle
Gal says, “How do I find
time to work out with kids and no childcare?”
Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan
We will never find enough
time to fit it all in. However, we do make time for what’s important to us. I
coach people to use a daily to-do list based off their priorities. The things that are a priority to you go on
the calendar and on to the broken down tasks on the to-do list. If your health and wellness is a priority and
getting a workout in is a priority, you’ll find a way. Put less on the to-do list, get to bed
sooner, get up earlier, and get it in at some point in your day.
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The biggest concept to
grasp is that is must become part of your daily rhythm and not a hope or wish
to be squeezed in if you have time left in the day. Most of us try to fit 30 hours worth of work
into a 24-hour day (guilty here!), so finding “extra time” is honestly never going to happen. Set a goal, set a plan and agenda for the
week, treat your fitness like a job, and get it done!
Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I get in a rut
of not working out and then I eat poorly.
I eat poorly because I’m not working out. It’s a vicious, consistent cycle and I’m
ready for change.”
Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
If you keep doing what you’ve
always done, you’ll keep ending up with the same results. It’s a habit to downward spiral and throw in
the towel because you got off plan. At
some point you will have to make the choice to get back on track sooner than
later. If you have goals that you’re
working towards, you won’t want to let yourself down. Pick a diet (I like to call it a
way-of-eating plan) and stay with it. We
all slip sometimes, but there’s no need to keep sliding way off course and
starting over and over again just because that's what you've always done. Tell yourself that choice is no longer acceptable and no longer an option. Decide to stay the course and take charge. You are in control and you’ve got this!
Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I need
motivation to stay on track with diet while battling an injury. I struggle with correct portion sizes while
being sedentary.”
Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
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In order to make sure you stay in correct portion control, injured or not, you should make sure to know the foods you’re eating. Always track what you eat and be educated to what’s in the ingredients. My tips and what works for me: measure your foods, focus on staying in your daily caloric amount, eat 6 small meals daily (even dividing your total day's calories over the course of 6 meals helps), and make choices of lean meats and proteins, low sugar vegetables, healthy fats, and minimal grains and fruits. Use sweets and treats sparingly, but give yourself a cheat meal or treat here and there to trick the body. If you adopt this style of eating for all time, when injury occurs, you’ll be more likely to stay on track!
Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I need help with
time management skills to work out and track what I eat.”
Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
Thanks Fit Gals for sharing your questions with me and for allowing me to give my opinions and answers. Don't let the past determine your future. Choose to be different this time....you've got this!
Got a question or struggle
you’re dealing with from this year?
Email me at mindy@fitgalclub.com
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