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Monday, December 31, 2012

Time to Reflect and Redirect! Fit Gals' Q & A for Change for the New Year!


2012 may have been a fabulous year for you.  Maybe you’re well into your fitness journey and happy with your progress.  For some, maybe you are at a standstill and ready for change.  Or maybe you’re saying, “What fitness, what plan….progress?”  No matter the case, most of us desire improvement for the months and year to come.  The best thing you can do for yourself is to reflect, redirect and aim high.  If you get stuck on how it always was, you’ll be where you always were.  It’s time to make changes and move forward!

I asked several of our Fit Gals and Guys to tell me what challenged them for 2012 and what they were hoping to change for the New Year.  They responded and I give my input and tips, sharing what’s worked for me and hopefully what can work for you!  I won’t sugar coat anything, just tell you what you want to hear, or be gentle.  I’m a tell-it-like-it-is kind of gal and only want the best (and to be honest) for your journey!


Question and Struggle:
Gal says, “I struggle with snacking on too many BLT’s (bites, licks, and tastes) from my kids’ plates.”

Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan:
Focus on your daily diet.  If you’re still really hungry after you’ve eaten or while prepping the kids’ food, then you might not be eating enough.  Time to eat….the right foods!  Much like when you prep to go grocery shopping, you eat before you go so the wrong and tempting foods don’t make their way into the cart.  The same goes for when you’re around others’ tempting foods.  If you find yourself in the habit of snacking often, then make sure your plan is balanced and you’re giving yourself enough cheat meals and treats to stay content.  Otherwise, bad habits arise and before you know it, you’ve ventured way off plan and a simple slip has turned into a slide!

I also say, if you find yourself craving something SO bad, then have it.  Not the whole tub of ice cream or the entire box of cookies, but rather a scoop or a cookie or a small bowl of the kids’ whatevers…..then you may not feel so deprived and you can move on with your clean-eating plan.  Just remember, no matter what it is, if you snack, you track it.  Stay honest with you to stay the course!



Question and Stuggle:
Gal says, “How do I find motivation after an injury?   I make the decision to get in shape, I come out of the gate strong, work out way too hard, giving 110% each time and then I get injured and my plan falls apart.  How do I pull back the reins and stay motivated?”

Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan:
I see two different areas to tackle here.  If you see this as your ongoing pattern, then you have to go back and identify the problem and set yourself up for success. 
-First issue: giving 110% at each workout is awesome and a wonderful plan.  But if your plan is to lift and do cardio too often, then you’ll find injury waiting around the corner.  You’re not getting injured because you’re giving 110%, you’re getting injured because you may not be listening to your body and giving it what it needs.  

If you want to set up a proper plan for the long haul, then what are your goals?  If it’s to do more workouts in order to get faster results, it won’t happen and yes, injury will derail you.  If you’re coming back into the fitness scene fast and furious to make up for lost time from your injury and time on the sidelines, then you’ll end up right back where you left off.  This time, make a plan to quit starting over, set yourself up properly, and let the past be the past.  Be realistic in your plans.  If you’re lifting, lift different body parts 3 to 5 days a week.  If you’re doing cardio, do it after you lift OR on non-lifting days and only for 20 to 30 minutes max.  Some group exercise classes go longer, so if that’s your choice, only do up to 3 of those 45 to 60-minute classes weekly.  Then, give yourself a REST DAY, water up, and get good sleep.  Still give 110% when you show up, just make sure to show up when your body says its ready!

-Second issue: Staying motivated!  It sounds like this scenario is maybe one expecting fast results.  Time to change the mindset.  Fast results do not really exist, without injury, frustration, and lack of motivation.  Most people quit way too soon because they aren’t getting where they want to be quickly.  What needs to happen is for people to realize that slow progress IS progress.  So just keep going!  Work your plan, listen to your body, and expect the best, not what’s happened in the past!



Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I want to change it up and lift heavier.”

Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan
Ok.  So go for it!  It’s all about baby steps, though.  It’s you against you in this race and doesn’t matter what the gal or guy next to you is lifting.  The best way to lift heavier is to have a plan and keep record of what you lifted last time.  Get a journal and write it all down.  Make note of how it felt, focus on your form, and always try to improve and go up in weight the next time you tackle that exercise. 

If you're lifting heavy and your goal is to grow muscle,  you'll do higher weights and lower reps.  I usually do 3 to 4 sets of a 10-12 rep exercise and if it's a REALLY heavy weight (like on leg day) my sets may only have 6 reps.  If you're making a change, it's best to consult someone at your gym for a coaching session or consider a trainer for a time and learn proper form and strategy.  That's what I did and it was one of the best investments (in me) I've ever done!

The formula for growing the muscle is making sure you have proper rest between sets and enough hydration during your lifting AND making sure that muscle group is well rested before working it out again on another day.  Also, pay attention to your pre and post workout nutrition making sure to have complex carbs and protein before lifting and a quick carb and protein post lifting.  Steer clear of all fats and high fiber foods for 90 minutes after lifting so the quick carbs and proteins are absorbed first to replenish the muscle.  In due time, and with proper timing and nutrition, you'll see the ability to lift heavy(er) and go for the look you desire.  Keep a plan, keep record, set your goals and go for it!



Question and Struggle
Gal says, “How do I find time to work out with kids and no childcare?”

Fit Gal and Guy Action Plan
We will never find enough time to fit it all in.  However, we do make time for what’s important to us.  I coach people to use a daily to-do list based off their priorities.  The things that are a priority to you go on the calendar and on to the broken down tasks on the to-do list.  If your health and wellness is a priority and getting a workout in is a priority, you’ll find a way.  Put less on the to-do list, get to bed sooner, get up earlier, and get it in at some point in your day.

I prefer to get into the gym to get my fitness on or workout outside on a nice day, but sometimes we can’t always make that happen for any given reason.  There are TONS of at-home videos, online free workouts, You Tube, and workout how-to’s online using weights, bands and your own body weight.  If the family’s around and you can’t get a workout in, then it’s all about scheduling and having a heart-to-heart with the little ones about what you’re trying to do.  Get up early to get it in or do it after they’re in bed.  If it’s a daytime event, find a way for them to workout alongside you or give them the video camera to record you (and be distracted) while you’re working out!

The biggest concept to grasp is that is must become part of your daily rhythm and not a hope or wish to be squeezed in if you have time left in the day.  Most of us try to fit 30 hours worth of work into a 24-hour day (guilty here!), so finding “extra time” is honestly never going to happen.  Set a goal, set a plan and agenda for the week, treat your fitness like a job, and get it done! 



Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I get in a rut of not working out and then I eat poorly.  I eat poorly because I’m not working out.  It’s a vicious, consistent cycle and I’m ready for change.”

Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
If you keep doing what you’ve always done, you’ll keep ending up with the same results.  It’s a habit to downward spiral and throw in the towel because you got off plan.  At some point you will have to make the choice to get back on track sooner than later.  If you have goals that you’re working towards, you won’t want to let yourself down.  Pick a diet (I like to call it a way-of-eating plan) and stay with it.  We all slip sometimes, but there’s no need to keep sliding way off course and starting over and over again just because that's what you've always done.  Tell yourself that choice is no longer acceptable and no longer an option.  Decide to stay the course and take charge.  You are in control and you’ve got this!



Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I need motivation to stay on track with diet while battling an injury.  I struggle with correct portion sizes while being sedentary.”

Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
Battling an injury is never easy.  However, if you’re used to eating based off your activity level maybe what you’ve been eating even when you were active was not just about portion size but more about content?  On times of low to no activity, I knew I had to “tighten up the diet”.  I wasn’t as focused on correct portion size as I was on making sure to choose the healthiest options possible.  2500 calories of junk is not the same as 2500 calories of clean food choices and my body is the first to reveal the results of my choices.  In reality, you can actually eat bigger portion sizes of cleaner food and feel more full and content had you chosen something of lower quality.  


In order to make sure you stay in correct portion control, injured or not, you should make sure to know the foods you’re eating.  Always track what you eat and be educated to what’s in the ingredients.  My tips and what works for me: measure your foods, focus on staying in your daily caloric amount, eat 6 small meals daily (even dividing your total day's calories over the course of 6 meals helps), and make choices of lean meats and proteins, low sugar vegetables, healthy fats, and minimal grains and fruits.  Use sweets and treats sparingly, but give yourself a cheat meal or treat here and there to trick the body.  If you adopt this style of eating for all time, when injury occurs, you’ll be more likely to stay on track! 



Question and Struggle
Gal says, “I need help with time management skills to work out and track what I eat.”

Fit Guy and Gal Action Plan
It starts with setting your priorities and then booking your time and building your day’s events around your goals and priorities.  Use a daily to-do list app and literally put the words “track your food” or “Workout at 8AM” in the line up.  There’s something powerful to getting through a list and checking things off after you’ve completed them.  More importantly, you’re setting up new habits for the long haul.  Don’t focus on trying to fit it in your schedule, focus on making it a part of your rhythm….so you can enjoy the fruits of your labor! 



Thanks Fit Gals for sharing your questions with me and for allowing me to give my opinions and answers.  Don't let the past determine your future.  Choose to be different this time....you've got this!

Got a question or struggle you’re dealing with from this year?  Email me at mindy@fitgalclub.com or post it on my Facebook wall HERE!

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